My mom says that Allah(swt) has it planned for you. It’s all written for you. Crying for something or constantly saying no to something won’t change the fact that you get what’s written for you and nothing else. She says all you can do is remember him, because the reason all these hardships and good come in your life is to remember the God who’s giving it all to you. If life was full of just being content, and satisfaction, would you remember him? Would you make dua?